Table Talk

Short, practical essays on getting your family talking — questions that actually work on teenagers, the research behind family stories, and the small daily rituals that outlast big talks.

August 25, 2026

Screens aren't rotting their brains. The bill arrives somewhere else.

An eight-year study found kids with more screen time showed better — not worse — cognitive processing as teens. Take it seriously. The bill was never cognitive; it arrives at bedtime and the dinner table.

August 19, 2026

OpenAI just gave the bot a curfew. Read what they took away.

ChatGPT for Teens launched this week — no romance, no claiming feelings, a parental curfew switch. Every subtraction on the list is a diagnosis of what was happening before.

August 9, 2026

Sleep just lapped screen time. We've been guarding the wrong hours.

New research ranked the lifestyle factors connecting kids' mental health to grades and friendships. Sleep won by a mile — screens, the thing we fight about, came a distant second.

August 3, 2026

Schools just took the phones. What happens at 3 o'clock is up to you.

38 states send kids back to phone-free classrooms this month. The research says the wins are social, not academic — and the ban ends at the bell.

July 28, 2026

Half of teens now talk to AI companions. The bot knows something we forgot.

72% of teens have tried an AI companion, half use one regularly — mostly in secret. The bot's feature list is a job description for the listener they want.

July 21, 2026

The screen-time hour is dead. Now what?

The AAP just retired the two-hour rule parents have argued over for a decade. The replacement question is harder and better — "instead of what?"

July 14, 2026

Your kids' grandparents are a library. Check something out.

The people who know your family's best stories won't be around to tell them forever. Ten questions to ask a grandparent this month — and why kids who hear the answers do better.

July 7, 2026

Small family rituals beat big talks

"We need to talk" almost never produces talking. What works instead: tiny, repeated rituals small enough to survive your family's worst week.

June 30, 2026

The "Do You Know?" scale: why kids who know family stories are more resilient

Twenty questions, developed at Emory, that predicted children's resilience better than researchers expected — and what the finding actually means for your dinner table.

June 23, 2026

How to get your teenager to open up (without an interrogation)

Why "how was school?" gets you "fine," and five changes — go first, drop the eye contact, let them write — that get you real answers.

June 16, 2026

25 questions that get teenagers talking (none are "how was school?")

Silly ones, brave ones, heart ones, heritage ones, dream ones — field-tested questions that produce answers longer than one word.